Unconditional Love

Thank you for coming back.

I hope you have a wonderful week.  I am so passionate about today’s topic because we all want to be loved and give love in return. Being a part of a family means we are always going to have  love for the rest of our lives. If we don’t have a family,  our best friend or loved ones will be there for us  if we open up to them. The  greatest gift we can give to each other is unconditional love. A lot of marriages grow and prosper because of that.

 Mother’s unconditional love is the truest and greatest  love ever  known. They  never give up.  But there’s always exceptions to that rule.

❤️Unconditional love can be difficult, but it is not impossible. In the purest sense, unconditional love  is about caring for the best and happiness of our loved ones.

Research tells us that unconditional love is rewarding without receiving anything in return. When we give our spouse unconditional love, our children will see a perfect love. They will make us happy  in return.  Children learn from watching us REMEMBER THAT. 

Unconditional love is  one of those things  that keeps relationships alive  and promote their growth, expressing love and feelings to our children, loved ones, friends, and family, and strengthening relationship. Sometimes, unconditional love is not healthy. It is when the receiver of unconditional love  is taking it for granted  ignored or not 

appreciated. It  comes back in a bad way. These stories I am about to share are true stories.  They really happened

Story #1

My aunt was a business woman she owned a Trucking company in the Philippines. My uncle did not work and had a bad temper. He always said bad words and bad things about everything and everyone. My aunt loved him unconditional ly. One day  my aunt came home and found my uncle in the couch sitting dead for a while. His mouth was chewed by an animal.  They believed it was a dog who ate a part of his mouth.  This happened in Manila Philippines.

Lesson from the story#1

Be careful what you say  and how you treat people.Be kind. Love conquers all ❤️

Story #2

My friend loves her husband unconditionally for a very long time.  Her husband went out and partied with his buddies all the time. She took good care of their children by herself

The children grew up and had a family of their own. Her husband was not giving her any attention.

The children grew up and had a family of their own.  Without their children, she became lonely. She  met a guy who gave her time and a lot of attention. She felt  good. For a long time, she had not been getting any  attention at all. Later on, she became closer to this  guy. The guy was bald and not very well dressed. Her husband was better looking. Her new friend asked her to move in with him in another state. She asked her husband for a divorce. Her husband was bragging to everyone that his wife would never leave him. He  said, “My  wife will never leave me.  She loves me unconditionally. Guess what she did leave him.She is now happy. Somebody cared for her and appreciated her.

Lesson#2

Don’t ignore somebody who is giving you unconditional love. Love them back before it’s too late. ❤️

Story #3

Another friend loved her husband unconditionally. They fought all the time. She got hurt every time he was upset about something.  One day, they were fighting in their backyard. He was ready to swing his arms, and my friend ducked. He hit his arm on the wall instead of her. He broke his arm. His arms have never been the same.

Lesson #3

Let us not be quick to hurt our loved ones.  We are blessed with people to love not hurt.

We have to love ourselves first unconditionally.  I am not talking about  over bearing and pride.  That is fear. Loving ourselves is appreciating  and respecting ourselves. When we start criticizing others, it comes back to us a thousand times. They will criticize us also. Loving ourselves will make us feel better and will be able to give love back in return. It is helpful to show love to ourselves that we are trying to give to our loved ones..

We live in a conditioal world. Sometimes, relationships have to end. It is not easy to live with anybody. We  can not allow ourselves to be stressed out. One thing for sure   lacking of unconditional love in relationships is unlikely to succeed. Thank you for watching. May your days be happy and healthy. We are here to enjoy life and take care of ourselves and each other. God loves you, I love you, and I thank you❤️ ❤️

1 Corinthians 13:5-6

“It does not  dishonor others. It is not self seeking,  it is not easily angered. It keeps no records of wrong.  Love does not  delight  in evil but rejoices with the truth.”