LOVE: How to Attract Love

HOW TO ATTRACT LOVE: SUGGESTIONS

#1 Be yourself

Being yourself is the best gift you can give to yourself. You will be so relax, calm and peaceful, your body, mind and spirit will be healthy. There is nothing more comforting than being yourself. Love occurs when your mind and body is in this state. When you are relax your mind produces positive thoughts that will agree with your dreams and intention It is beautiful thoughts that attract love into your life. Being yourself also suggest that you love yourself that is so important for good health and wellness.

When you are relax, you attract people to get close to you, and easily trust you. Trustworthy people makes good lovers. The joy and happiness they give to their love ones are real and their love ones feel that and know that. Hiding and pretending you are somebody you are not is emotionally, mentally and physically time consuming and exhausting. You are always scare of being find out or worrying something will go wrong and that is not healthy. It is a waste of time, frustrating and disappointing for you and for someone you love.

Being true to yourself, allows you to dream and create the life you want. When you embrace your true personality and follow your heart, you can’t hardly go wrong. Just being yourself will attract the right person to fall in love with you.

Philippians 2:3
"Do nothing  out of selfish ambition or vain conceit. Rather in humility value others above yourselves"

#2 Be loving

If you want to attract love, be loving. Do this with all your heart. When you find somebody to love you, be thankful and let that love grow. Trina had to choose who to marry. Two guys wanted to marry her.  Jim is her  dream man. He has all the qualities she wanted in a man she wanted  to spend the rest of her life with. She chose Jim.  Jim delivered, and become a very good husband to her. He is a good man but not so nice all the time. Sometimes she feels like  he's saying, "You picked me deal with it."  While, Jim  was courting her, Jim said, "Pick me, pick me, pick me. " Now you know the rest of the story. They are still married. Jim is very fortunate to find somebody that truly loves him. Not everybody is as fortunate as Jim. Jim shows his love through actions. He make sure the whole family is taking care of and he is there when he is needed. He believes  that's enough contribution. Trina is very understanding and she knows Jim loves her in his own way. She appreciates  the fact that he makes the effort to keep their  love stay strong forever. Jim loves his family with all his heart. Trina knows that and that's all that matter to her. Understanding our  mate is a form of loving. Expecting our love ones to love us the way we expect them to, is a disaster. Their brain does not operate like ours. If you want something say it. Accepting our mates who they are is healthy. Quit changing your mate, you will only get frustrated. Change your attitude toward the situation instead. Deal with the problem not with the person. Be loving, takes courage. Giving attention is a form of loving.  With our busy world we don't have time to spend time with our loved ones. Letting them know we care. is a wonderful thing.  Being non-judgmental is a form of loving. When we judge someone we tend to look down at him/her. This  is the opposite of loving. Loving make us happy and healthy. It help us feel better. Couples that has warm interactions with one another has less stress than couples who are  routinely hostile.
Romans 12:9
"Let love be without hypocrisy,. Abhor what is evil. Cling to what is good."

BE COMFORFORTABLE 
Try to be a comfortable type of  person. An easy going. and natural person, someone who is easy to talk to.  He/she  is always pleasant and kind . A loving  person  has a sincere interest and real  love for  people.  You are happy being around him/her. You cannot really feel loved when somebody is concern about their position,  stiff and easily offended. In fact you'll feel strange, uneasy and want to disappear as fast as you can. If you are acting better than everybody else. It is hard to know how you are going to react or how you are feeling. It will be uncomfortable around you. 
Psalms 144:15 
"Happy  are the people who are in such a state, Happy are the people whose God is the LORD."

SMILE
When you walk with a smile, most of the time people smiles back. This bring both of you happiness and joy on your heart, and it is good for your mood and good health. Smiling also affects how others sees us. Smiling is always associated with positive emotions like happiness or contentment.  When you are happy people will be comfortable talking to you or approach you. That is showing love  to people around you. Smiling also make you look and feel attractive, lift your mood  and make you healthier.  Smiling is contagious.  When you smile, you 're viewed  as more attractive and sociable.  As a result people love you and love being around you.  Smile.
Proverbs 15:30
"Light in a messenger's  eyes bring  joy to the heart, and good news gives health to the bones."

Be grateful. It  will attract positivity in your life. If you want to attract love, be loving .It is contagious. 
















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