LOVE: What About Love?

Love has many different meaning to everybody. You ca not really love somebody if you do not understand him/her. If you do not understand them, you don’t really love them. Everybody wants to love and to be loved. Why is there so many anger, frustration disappointment going on now. That is not love. Where did the love go.? Here are some suggestion about love.

#I LOVE YOURSELF

You need to love yourself first. Once you get to know yourself, value yourself and respect yourself, it will be easier to love others. The idea behind loving yourself, is really simple. Because you love yourself you make sure you take care of yourself, mentally physically, and emotionally. You will want the best for yourself. This is very important if you want to succeed in relationship with others. You have to know who you are first. Self love increases self- esteem, love and trust yourself and learn to love your love ones

Mark 12:31

“And the second, like it , is this: “You shall love your neighbor as yourself; There is no greater commandment than these.”

#2 Anger:

We can not really love anybody when we are angry with them. Some people are angry and they don’t even know why. 1. When we eat unhealthy food it affects our brain, our health and our mood. 2. Too much stress. A little stress is good for us it makes us move and work better. But when it last a long time it become a chronic stress and it is not good for us. 3. Not getting enough sleep or rest. Watching too much tv, working on your computer, playing games on your device affect your health and taking time away from your family. You need at least 15 minutes by yourself, meditating or praying. You have to get rid of negative thoughts and replace them with positive thoughts. Instead of saying, I hate my job, say, I appreciate my job. I’ll get better at it at no time. You have a choice . Do you want to be happy and succeed or do you want to fail and be miserable. Change your attitude. Attitude is better than facts. A good attitude goes along way. These are just a few things to ease your anger if you are experiencing some. Love will flow from your heart if you are relax and calm.

JAMES 1;18

“Know this my beloved brothers: let every person be quick to hear, slow to speak, slow to anger.”

FRUSTRATION AND DISAPPOINTMENTS

Our current generation have this attitude: 1. I want this now. It is really better to wait if you have to. Remember, good things happen to those people who wait. When you are stuck in a traffic, use that time to pray or meditate. 2. My way or no way. Once in a while we have to hear what other people’s ideas are. This will improve our project, if we give other people a chance. Remember the best way or the right way is not always your way. 3. Busy busy. Always in a hurry Then you go home and do nothing. That is not even worth making your heart work harder because of your attitude. That kind of attitude is bad for your health and you are making others feel uncomfortable. That’s disrespectful and you are making people feel bad. Be kind to everyone you meet. That kindness will come back to you. Frustration and disappointments are part of life. Learn what went wrong and work on that. Learn how to handle the situation better. So next time it occurs you are prepared. Another way you can show love is when you are inspired and satisfied. Love will flow. Patience is very good for your health.

Psalm143:8

“Let the morning bring me word of your unfailing love for I have put my trust in you.”

VALUE PEOPLE

When you value other people, they can feel your sincerity and they will not only like you they will trust you. When you listen and speak less, you will learn more and make the other person feel valued. Values are important to avoid misunderstandings, frustration and distrust. Value helps us respect others. When we value and respect others these will bring joy to us. You’ll be happy and they will be happy. This is an act of love.

Philippians 2:3-4

“Do nothing out of selfish ambition or vain conceit. Rather, in humility value others above yourselves, not looking to your own interests but each of you to the interest of others”

How about you ? What do you think about love?.